The moment I knew: He was five hours late to Christmas lunch – then I realised why

Samantha Ross was suspicious about Adam’s sweet disposition. Then a surprising act of kindness brought her guard down

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It was the year 2000 and my belief in love was crushed. I’d been in a five-year relationship, only to find out my ex had cheated the entire time. In some small part, I saw it as my own fault – I’d always been attracted to proverbial bad boys. Adding to the angst of being betrayed, I’d been writing novels – mysteries set in the Australian wilderness – that kept being rejected.

I was not in a sunny place. And then I met Adam.