Mum quits the UK and moves abroad because 'most people in England are miserable and soulless'

Mum quits the UK and moves abroad because 'most people in England are miserable and soulless' Mum-of-one, Melanie is taking the plunge to leave the UK as she claims she feels stuck in an infinite cycle of 'rise and repeat' with the country sucking the soul out of her A mum is selling all of her possessions in the UK to travel the world with her five-year-old son, as she said the country makes her "miserable", claiming: "There is something about England energy-wise that is just so off." This isn’t the first time Melanie Bentley-Moore, 33, has decided to leave the UK for Asia, as she first left in 2017 with the intention of a brief trip. "I used to live in Asia for two years so I'm very familiar with that area of the world," she said. "I was only meant to go for three months but I ended up staying out there for a couple of years travelling around Asia.” The mum-of-one spent two years in Asia with Vietnam being her main base. But, her long-extended trip came to a halt as she missed a British staple - a local chippy. She added: "My main base was Vietnam, I did some English teaching out there and came back home because, it's something random, I really wanted chippy and Nando's.” She then decided to settle in the UK, after having her son, Antares Moore, in 2023. But the desire to go back has never left Melanie. She says the UK made her miserable and believed that it’s not an isolated feeling. "The energy just feels heavy, it's dark - there's no room to grow, [the] majority of people are miserable because of all the [stuff] that's going on, the cost of living, everything's rising," she said, "I just don't feel alive here and I think that's not just a 'me' problem either, everyone that I'm speaking to just feels soulless.” In April 2026, Melanie’s landlord said he was selling her flat, which prompted the mum-of-one to take the same risk she took all those years ago, and leave the UK. Melanie told her TikTok followers: "Just hearing everyone else complain, that weakens my spirit. Most people are miserable and they're always complaining, it seeps into everything.” "It's like an infinite cycle of 'rinse and repeat' complaining. It's just a feeling, I just don't feel alive. It sucks the soul out of me." Ahead of her relocation, Melanie took her son out of school as she admired the Scandinavian education system which saw children beginning compulsory school between the ages of 6 and 7. In the UK, children start school from the age of 4. "In Scandinavia there's a reason why their children are the happiest and more successful because they don't start school till they're seven.” Melanie hoped to show her son ‘real life’ as she preferred the values of life in Asia. She said: "I'm going to go to Indonesia and then probably back to Vietnam, it just depends on the weather. See where life takes us, I'm very 'flowy'. "With the values and stuff, life's just better over there. It's slower, it's sunny, the scenes are beautiful and you realise there is so much more to life than what I'm used to." By speaking up, Melanie hoped to inspire others to follow their dreams and see “there’s more to life". "I'm here to inspire people to follow their heart, go after what they want and that there's more to life," she said, "It's no good talking, there's a lot of talkers out there - I 'do'.” "I want to show my son real life as well. I'm going to do some charity work and volunteering with him. There is no better learning than real life.”